I thought you might be interested in the blog that inspired me to write Daring to Love. It was originally posted on Robert Firestone's "The Human Experience" blog on Psychology Today's website. The blog's title (Why do we hate love?) is more provocative than the book's title, but both are challenging and thought-provoking.
You can read the blog here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-human-experience/201310/why-do-we-hate-love